Written by: Dina Harbour
Women Obtaining Wealth
W.O.W. on Blog Talk Radio  (Every Sunday @ 6P EST) 

I was pulling some of my financial reports and I was amazed.  It seems that this year I’ve made more money than last year.  This couldn’t be.  Last year I sold several homes, this year none. But keep in mind that I do have multiple streams of income.

The mind does matter! I told myself that I would only take on assignments that I enjoy doing. Money came flowing to me from places I had no idea they would come from.  I remember last month I stopped at my mailbox before driving to take care of some errands. There was a check from my Aunt for a couple hundred dollars.  I was shocked, this is the same Aunt that sent me $10.00 for my birthday this past July and told me to have lunch on her. I can go on and on about money I received this year out of the blue.

Due to the current economic stress people are not thinking outside of the box. They are hoping and waiting for someone to lead them out of this ciaos. Stop waiting on others, and look within yourself.  Determine your strengths and talents and use them to help others while making money.

Personally, I’ve been out of corporate America for close to four years now one of the reasons is because my supervisors didn’t understand my value.  Our mind tells us what we are worth on a daily basis, now you need to follow through and listen to it! 

Have a mindful day!

Written by: Dina Harbour
Women Obtaining Wealth, Women Financial Empowerment
W.O.W. on Blog Talk Radio  (Every Sunday @ 6P EST) 

Can someone please tell me where I can find the Joneses?  I’ve been hearing about them all my life just like Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy.  How is it that we get so caught up in these notions and adopt them into our belief systems?

While married I noticed that my husband was always talking about the material things we needed to buy. We purchased our house after being married just one year and I was trying to turn “our house into a home” but things started getting very expensive.  My Mom told explained to me that everyone starts off slow in the beginning and decorating a home takes time and money.

So I exhaled a sigh of relief and took my time.  Why did I feel so pressured to rush out and buy things that I could not afford? I think I was trying to compete with the Joneses, people I’ve never met.

Now that my mind has been renewed, I notice other people’s conversations and the lifestyles they portray.  Sad but many of those same people are loosing or have lost their homes, are in a mountain of debt, and/or getting their cars repossessed. Whew! Thank God I left them Joneses alone and just stayed the person that I truly am.

Are you related to the Joneses?

Definition by Wikipedia:
"Keeping up with the Joneses" is a popular catchphrase in many parts of the English-speaking world. It refers to the desire to be seen as being as good as one's neighbours or contemporaries using the comparative benchmarks of social caste or the accumulation of material goods. To fail to "keep up with the Joneses" is perceived as demonstrating socio-economic or cultural inferiority.
A related British phrase is "keeping up appearances"

Being an African American in the year of 2008 is a very proud moment in time.  I know many of us feel this sense of pride knowing that we have a bi-racial or as some call him an African American Presidential nominee.

Although I am truly impress with Mr. Obama, I am more intrigued with his wife Michelle.  I won’t go into all of my reasons, but I will say that she is a positive role model for not just African-American women, but all women.

Here is my concern however.  Mr. Obama cannot save the African-American race.  We cannot put the burden on him to improve our communities, strengthen our families, and educate our children.  We are the true leaders. This is where wealth comes into play.  Since women make so many financial decisions, we need to do the right things with our money!  We need to own a home, stay out of debt, and teach our children that buying $200 shoes with someone else name on them is not a sign of wealth.

I think the Obama’s are truly inspirational, but we need to be careful not to relying on him or anyone else for that matter to lead us.  We all need to be leaders in our communities and start with understanding the importance of OWENRSHIP and true WEALTH.

Now be a leader with your day!

The Fear Is Gone!

I think this saying is the title of B.B. King’s song –lol-.  Anyway I was talking with my niece yesterday and we were discussing the economy.  I told her that while everyone is in a “Fear Mode”, smart people are getting richer.  Yes they are.  I saw this same panic happen back in 1987 when the stock market crashed.  I was new to the financial/banking world at the time and didn’t benefit the way I should have.
I remember getting a stock tip from my boss and mentor.  He would get dozens of dividend checks on a weekly basis and I would go down to the bank to deposit them.  I remember thinking “who would want a check for a 1.57” but the total amount of his deposit would always shock me.  Most of the time it was over $100 each deposit.

He told me to invest in Citibank stock.  At the time (1987) I hadn’t heard of Citibank. They weren’t in the West Coast at that time.  The stock price was about $5 a share and guess what?  I didn’t buy a single share.  Well, we all know who Citibank is now –right- ieeeeeeee
My point is every 15-20 years the economy does something crazy in a particular industry.  Then it was banking, now real estate.  Usually greed is the fundamental cause.  Currently, I am purchasing real estate at auctioning prices as low as $1,000.  Can you believe this? Oh well some see obstacles, while others see opportunity!